Recently, I have been talking to many students (high school and college), and I have been excited and disheartened at what I hear from them. There are many students living their lives fully devoted to Christ, and many that are Christians, yet seem lost. For example, Thomas Gamble impresses the mess out of me (side-note: I will not be grammatically or mechanically awesome when blogging, so I will use slang and craziness). Thomas is a college student who is living out his daily walk with Jesus. He has been called into ministry, and I see him as a great future leader in the church. I am proud of the path Thomas is pursuing, and I'm excited to see what happens with him in the future. Mark Bateman (my BFF and Youth/College Leader of SABC in Panama City, FL), has done a great job mentoring Thomas and preparing him for a life of ministry. Now, I don't want to blow up Thomas ego too much since he might read this, but he is a legit dude and he deserves some recognition.
Now, there are a few students I have talked with that have me a little concerned, yet hopeful. Some students I have spoken with have the potential to be great leaders in the church, but their lives and actions are not in line to what Jesus would want for them. These students light a fire under me to do my best to mentor them and try and help them see the life Jesus wants them to live. In these situations, I think of the relationship that Paul and Timothy shared in the New Testament. Let me just say, I am no Paul. In 2 Timothy 2:22-23 Paul says, "Flee the evil desires of youth and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart. 23 Don’t have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels." I love the advice given here. This is the kind of advice I try and give to students I talk to. Today's generation has to put up with so many sinful distractions, and I feel horrible for what they go through on a daily basis. I can understand why some young Christians are distracted from the Christian life when I hear about the situations they deal with everyday, but I then realize I must do a better job mentoring and guiding them to a life more pleasing to God. Paul's mentorship of Timothy is a great example of what mentors must do to teach younger Christians.
I'd like to encourage anyone reading this blog to read 1 and 2 Timothy and see the advice Paul gives to Timothy. It will not only enlighten you as a mentor, but give you an insight into a great relationship between a mentor and a "mentee."
I'd like to throw out a few questions to anyone reading this. Have you mentored someone before, or are currently mentoring someone? If so, what are some of the successes and heartbreaks you have experienced? Mentoring younger Christians is rewarding, but it can also cause heartache when someone you work with, that has so much potential, slips in their walk. If you are mentoring students, keep up the great work, and remember to continue your own spiritual growth so you will be the leader younger people need to look to for guidance.
peace,
j.
